This has been a rough time for people across America. Being forced into our homes for what has seemed like forever is a challenge for people who are always on the go. Socializing is a weekend regular and taking the kids to local events is a way of life. However, amid the outbreak of CoVID-19, life has changed in ways we never imagined. Despite what people may think, even introverts are struggling to manage life from the inside.
Whether you are home with the children, or you live alone, there are only so many movies you can watch on Netflix and so many times you can clean out your closet. For the past few days, I pondered what else I could be doing to add some variety to my day-to-day schedule so that being “home bound” is not so stressful for me or my family. Check out the top ten suggestions below; maybe you will find something that interests you, too.
10. Meditate-Although I try to take time to read and focus each morning, I had found more great opportunities to breathe, stretch and focus. There are some great pages on Instagram that are offering live morning meditation each morning. Moms, don’t fear, you can bring the kiddos in for this, too. One of the Instagram pages offering free meditation is Transcendental Meditation. Follow them and check out their schedule to join in!
9. Free Lance Arts & Crafts-This means you should avoid going to the store if you don’t have to and use anything you can find at home to do arts and crafts projects. Now, I won’t lie, we have an arts and crafts area where I collect as many items as possible from the dollar tree. However, if you have paper, markers, colored pencils, old pieces of materials or blankets, pieces of wood or magazines, let your imagination run free. Figure out what you can create and get to work! This activity can be even more exciting if you have a team of kiddos who want to get in on the excitement, too. You’ll never know what you can create when you simply use your imagination!
8. Learn some new technology tools-Canva, Wix, Google, any fancy-schmancy cell phone apps- which one tickles your fancy? Learning how to use a new online program can be tricky, but it can help you advance your career or create and expand your secondary gig. Mastering new web programs can take time and time is a little bit of what you have! Invest in yourself and use YouTube or Vimeo to help you learn more about these programs. Then, test them out by reaching out to your friends and family.
7. Do your manicure and pedicures at home-That’s right, do it yourself! While it is relaxing to sit back and get your hands and feet done, you don’t have to suffer just because the nail shop is closed. The next time you make your weekly quarantine grocery run, pick up a few $1 nail polishes and topcoat. Get your favorite lotions out, bucket and an emery board and get to work. Self-care will truly be self- care during this time. Honey, I am officially the home manicure queen! When my living situation changed a few months ago, my bi-weekly trips to the nail salon were the first thing to go! I already owned a heat lamp (purchased on Amazon), so I went online and ordered my first 4 soak-off nail polishes and some remover for a total of $16. I went to my local Dollar Tree and bought all my manicure essentials (I mean EVERYTHING) for only $10 and my bi-weekly manicure and pedicure sessions are done at home. That’s right- for the price I pay for one gel manicure, I bought all of my supplies. I have to admit- I’m enjoying my owe peace, solitude and wine way more thank I enjoyed the hustle-bustle of the nail shop.
6. Start a mini-garden-It’s one of the most natural things you can do. It doesn’t have to be any grand like watermelons or pumpkins. You can make it a small herb garden or plant a few beans. Challenge yourself to water them and take your little garden seriously. I started gardening about seven years ago, and my porch plants eventually became a small garden full of fruits and veggies. It was a hobby that became a great passion! Let’s see how green your thumb is; start gardening!
5. Re-collaborate your closet-Downtime is the perfect time to examine what you have in your closet and create new outfits! Add a bit of spice by pairing patterns and colors you hadn’t considered. Dig in the back of the closet and bring out that outfit you forgot about! If you are extra talented turn long sleeves into short sleeves and pants into shorts. Pinterest is the perfect place to find all kinds of ideas, especially ones for re-purposing outfits! Download your app, go to your closet and unleash your inner fashion expert!
4. Do yard work-Do you really want to keep visitors at least six feet from your house? Well, here’s the solution- invite them over to do yard work! Seriously, for many people, lawn service has also temporarily stopped whether it is due to the quarantine or to save more while out of work because of CoVID. For years, I loathed at the thought of mowing my own yards, trimming hedges or raking leaves until I couldn’t do it anymore. Now, I miss putting my earbuds in my ears and getting to work! I loan for the days of raking leaves into a pile and letting my son jump into them. It was a task that I found fun in doing while improving the maintenance of my year and the appearance of my yard. The emotional benefits of fresh air and experience are especially far-reaching right now. You don’t have to be an expert to make your yard look nice. Crank up the lawnmower and allow your mind to be free as you trim the leaves!
3. Have an online happy hour-Okay, so last week my friend girl Kesha, who lives in Baton Rouge invited me to an online happy hour using our cell phone apps. I met new friends; we met each other’s children. We briefly introduced ourselves and then talked like old friends. For a while, I was transported to another location on a mini vacation. As we each sipped drinks of our choice, we laughed and talking like nothing had changed. I had so much fun I told my friend not to ever leave me out again. There are several cell phone apps for meetings, just choose one that you like and end the links to your friends. Mentally transport yourself to your favorite weekend hang out and have the time of your life. Don’t forget to invite me, too!
2. Catch up on reading-Of course, you’ve probably heard this a thousand times, but it is one of the best ways to pass time and empower yourself! Instead of only reading for leisure, read for a purpose. Read a chapter and then challenge yourself to answer these question questions: What did I like about this chapter? What did I dislike about this chapter? How can I related to or apply something from this chapter to my life? If that doesn’t tickle your fancy, read a book about a hobby, improving in your current field or a career you’ve been thinking about doing but haven’t done yet. Use what you learn as a guide toward making that thing happen! After you read, the next goal is to ACT on it. Start that hobby. Begin preparing for that career. Reading is excellent, but reading for a purposely gives you energy, direction, and motivation!
1. Throw a quarantine party with your family-When you can’t party where you want, bring the party where you are. My son and I have re-kindled our relationship with Alexa, and she brings some of our favorite tunes each day. Have a Hispanic celebration with Taco Tuesday, virgin margaritas and the best hits by Selena. Have an Italian night with Spaghetti, your favorite wine and a little Andrea Bocelli playing the background. Boil some crawfish (or any seafood) and potatoes with corn, make a gallon of sweet tea and turn on some Keith Frank to zydeco two-step! If you live alone, this event does not exclude you. Go back to number 3 and crank the party up with all your closest friends from far away. Where we are is beyond our control, but how we experience depends on our state of mind.
Finding the silver lining in this experience can be a little challenging some days but remember how blessed we are to be healthy and alive. Take this experience with grace and find ways to keep your positive outlook and inner glow. Don’t give up “you”; give more into you by doing things you thought you would never have time to do. Soon, things will begin to improve, and you will miss all the wonderful time you got to spend with yourself and your family.